Unquestionable Conversations: Standards, Love, and Expectations
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Live from Los Angeles, the Unquestionable crew (Chris, Boii B, Bucci & K3T) get real, unfiltered, and hilarious as they unpack:
💔 Childhood heartbreaks that still sting
💬 Whether men are really allowed to have standards
🎭 Pretending you’re not hurt—when you’re dying inside
🚩 Red flags that lowkey turn us on (don’t judge)
🧠 Are men taught to love… or taught to provide?
📉 Why love languages might be overrated
😂 The friend who always lies and makes up wild stories
🎤 How unsolicited advice on the podcast gets under our skin
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🚩 The pettiest icks
😡 That “little podcast” shade
🔥 Who cheats better—men or women?
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00:00 – Can men have standards or is it a double standard?
03:30 – Our LA trip didn’t go as planned…
07:00 – Are men taught to love or taught to provide?
13:00 – Do love languages even matter?
18:00 – Red flags that we secretly like
25:30 – Who cheats better: men or women?
28:30 – Pretending you’re not hurt (but you’re dying inside)
35:00 – Our most embarrassing middle school heartbreaks
41:00 – Unsolicited podcast advice & social media hate
44:00 – The “little job/little podcast” backhanded support
47:00 – The petty icks that give us the chills
52:00 – Closing thoughts from LA
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I mean, what if a guy said, I need a five, seven, no shorter, under 180.
Speaker A:Fucking slim thick.
Speaker A:I'm pretty sure, like, the chest would be a little hurt by that.
Speaker B:Welcome back to this week's episode of Unquestionable, the podcast.
Speaker B:You got your boy, Chris, boy B K3, like always.
Speaker C:Yes, sir.
Speaker C:What's going on?
Speaker B:Yes, sir.
Speaker D:Yes, sir.
Speaker E:Yes, sir.
Speaker E:How you guys doing?
Speaker E:We live from la.
Speaker E:How you guys doing.
Speaker A:From la?
Speaker A:Drop the location.
Speaker A:Daddy's pull up.
Speaker E:We were supposed to have a special guest for y', all, not gonna lie.
Speaker B:But.
Speaker A:Yeah, but he's in Vegas right now.
Speaker E:Hey, it's all part of the struggle.
Speaker E:Yeah, we still make it happen.
Speaker A:In Vegas too.
Speaker D:For sure.
Speaker D:We made the best of it coming out here.
Speaker D:We got a vlog coming out for y'.
Speaker A:All.
Speaker A:We shout out to the boy Zach, the dude, he's in the building.
Speaker D:Zach, the dudes here.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker D:Follow him on the gram, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram.
Speaker A:Check that guy out.
Speaker D:He's out there.
Speaker C:The boy for real.
Speaker D:Could have had him on the pod, but I guess he wasn't feeling too good.
Speaker E:No, no, no.
Speaker E:But also, we don't really have that much space.
Speaker E:It's not like we could have done.
Speaker A:Nothing, but we out here, boys.
Speaker A:Day 28.
Speaker A:24 hours in LA.
Speaker A:LA, yeah.
Speaker D:First 48.
Speaker E:How do you guys feel about it?
Speaker E:Like, you guys.
Speaker E:You guys feel like it's wasted or.
Speaker A:Do you guys kind of scared?
Speaker A:Cuz Kanye west said don't come to la, so.
Speaker D:Who said that?
Speaker C:It just feels like a business trip.
Speaker C:That's what it feels like.
Speaker D:I'm on vacation.
Speaker C:Business.
Speaker C:Business is business.
Speaker A:My wife, my kids, they're all at home, so I'm free right now.
Speaker B:Guys are stupid.
Speaker B:No, but for real, do you guys feel like we kind of like.
Speaker B:I don't know.
Speaker E:I don't necessarily feel like it's a waste of time.
Speaker B:Like, we're still gonna get the vlog.
Speaker B:We're still gonna, you know, make the most out of it.
Speaker B:But, I mean, we rented this spot, came on.
Speaker D:I'll tell you what.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker B:Just.
Speaker D:I'm on vacation.
Speaker D:All right.
Speaker C:I feel like we have ultimately gotta make the most out of it.
Speaker C:That's all we can do.
Speaker A:I feel like I'm in Miami going up another notch right now, bro.
Speaker D:We turning up another night.
Speaker D:It's not not.
Speaker D:It's turning up another night.
Speaker C:Not much.
Speaker A:Sounds like Notch.
Speaker D:I think Apple.
Speaker C:There's some.
Speaker C:There's some dialogue on it saying, like.
Speaker D:I think Apple Music even has Notch, but Clearly he's saying turn up another notch.
Speaker D:That does.
Speaker B:Pretty sure it makes sense.
Speaker D:But like turn up another night.
Speaker D:We in Miami.
Speaker D:Turn up like turn up another notch.
Speaker B:Well, we were turning up another night.
Speaker E:For sure.
Speaker D:We turn up.
Speaker D:Dude, last night.
Speaker C:Last night we were turning.
Speaker D:Was getting disrespectful.
Speaker D:I don't know what got into him.
Speaker D:It was crazy.
Speaker B:Hey, well, we.
Speaker E:I was lowkey.
Speaker E:I'll be honest, I was pissed that we were getting ghosted.
Speaker B:So I was just more of like you trying to drink.
Speaker B:Bartender.
Speaker D:Drinking another one at bartender.
Speaker D:I really did it this time.
Speaker D:You guys don't know that song, huh?
Speaker A:No, I know, I know.
Speaker A:I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker A:Missed.
Speaker A:Went right over our heads.
Speaker D:I know, I know, I know, I know.
Speaker D:It happens though.
Speaker D:You win some, you lose some.
Speaker D:Shout out Morgan, though, but shout him out, bro.
Speaker D:The new album dropped.
Speaker A:Come on, 35 songs.
Speaker D:He's not coming to sack.
Speaker D:I'm upset about that.
Speaker D:He's going to Santa Clara Amphithea.
Speaker A:What's called Toyota.
Speaker B:Is he Levi Wheatland?
Speaker A:Yeah, he's going to Wheatland.
Speaker E:Oh, he's going to Wheatland.
Speaker D:I got to find the tickets.
Speaker D:I didn't see that.
Speaker A:They're like $600.
Speaker D:I'll be there, baby.
Speaker E:You go.
Speaker C:I be listening to Morgan.
Speaker A:I'd go for the.
Speaker A:The bro.
Speaker D:They're going to be there for.
Speaker B:Surely that's crazy.
Speaker D:But he's a dope guy for sure.
Speaker B:No, that's crazy.
Speaker B:But let's get right into it, guys.
Speaker B:I got a first question.
Speaker B:The first question from la.
Speaker C:Let's get it.
Speaker B:Yes, sir.
Speaker D:Live from la.
Speaker E:We got unquestionable.
Speaker B:No, but the first question is, are men even allowed to have standards anymore?
Speaker B:No, we hear all these.
Speaker B:We hear all these, you know, conversations about you got to be 6 foot, 100k, all these type of things, obviously.
Speaker C:But all these, you know, requirements.
Speaker B:Let's flip the script and ask, like flip the scripter.
Speaker B:Can men technically have the same type of standards or is it looked at in a way, I think.
Speaker A:I think you'll get canceled or judged if you had standards.
Speaker D:I don't have the craziest of standards, though.
Speaker D:That's the thing though.
Speaker D:And for them to have standards, like on me, it's like, well, I'm out here trying.
Speaker E:Well, you can't say you don't have the craziest of standards, cuz it's not like you're just going to go out.
Speaker D:Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker E:And you know what I'm saying, like, you're not Just going to go out and be like, first girl that talks to me, I like her.
Speaker B:Like no, you have certain set of standards.
Speaker E:Like you're, you have to define your set of standards.
Speaker A:Like shout out to the boy, Aaron Plummer, cuz he said they not qualified and they, they got mad at the boy.
Speaker A:Shout out to the 209.
Speaker E:But like you, you either have to be attracted to this girl or she has to be a certain type of way.
Speaker B:Carry herself a certain type of way.
Speaker B:Obviously men can have standards, in my opinion.
Speaker A:I think so.
Speaker A:I think so.
Speaker A:But I think the Internet would probably.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:Beg the difference.
Speaker B:Can we have as strict of standards?
Speaker B:I don't think so.
Speaker C:Like, I don't think everybody could have standards, but I think once they start getting like very, very strict, then that's when people might start feeling that they're overdoing it.
Speaker C:Yeah, like everybody has, you know, each tweets their own like, you know, yeah, they can have whatever they like what.
Speaker D:They like, what you like, like that.
Speaker C:But I like starts getting too crazy then, you know, that's when it starts.
Speaker A:Getting like, I like them all, I love them all.
Speaker E:No, but be realistic.
Speaker B:Like what, you know, can men have standards?
Speaker E:Or do you think that it's like you think it's acceptable to have standards.
Speaker B:Or do you think like we are held to a double standard in a sense?
Speaker B:I guess that's the question that we're.
Speaker A:I think it's a double standard asking.
Speaker B:You think it's a double standard.
Speaker B:Elaborate on it.
Speaker A:Because if I had a type.
Speaker B:What.
Speaker E:Does that mean to you though?
Speaker A:I mean, what if a guy said I need a five, seven, no shorter, under 180, slim, thick.
Speaker A:I'm pretty sure like the church would be a little hurt by that.
Speaker A:Hey, don't get me wrong, I love me some chess.
Speaker E:That's crazy.
Speaker A:They need love too.
Speaker A:And here to give it.
Speaker A:I got more than enough to go around, I'll tell you what.
Speaker A:But I tell you what, like some people that be called are viewed maybe a little shallow, maybe a little fat phobic, maybe a little biased, like, I don't know.
Speaker A:But a woman can say you got to make 100k or you got to be six foot.
Speaker A:Shout out to my short kings out there.
Speaker E:Still all those type of things.
Speaker D:Yeah, dude, my coworker told me this.
Speaker D:He goes, he said, how can, how can a girl say something about me and not make as much as me?
Speaker D:And I didn't go to college and she's over here going to, went to college, has her degree and not making as much as me.
Speaker D:And I was like, oh, man, that's crazy to think.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker D:Because I didn't go to college and I'm over here cashing out.
Speaker D:And I guess he was rocking with a shorty who went to college and she just didn't have her together but would always bash him about.
Speaker D:Like, he didn't have this, this and this and this.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker D:And he was like, well, you went to college and you're over here making $2 over minimum wage.
Speaker D:You're hating on me for the wrong reasons.
Speaker B:No.
Speaker D:And I was like, damn, that's crazy to think about because, I mean, I never think about, like, money like that, you know, if you make what you make and that's fine or whatever, you know.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker D:And for him to say that, I was like, wow, that's.
Speaker D:That's crazy.
Speaker D:So if a shorty ever hit me with something like that, I'd be like, well, I didn't go to college.
Speaker B:No.
Speaker E:But I mean, different situation.
Speaker C:Like, everybody got different routes.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker C:To make money.
Speaker D:No, for sure.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker B:Graduate, you know, and I.
Speaker B:Does that stuff defined you ultimately?
Speaker B:Does your journey, like, define who you are?
Speaker B:Like, I don't necessarily think so, like, just me speaking, but I. I do think.
Speaker B:I'll be honest, I don't know if this is unpopular or what, but I do think that there's a certain double standard that should be upheld for women in a sense where, you know, in a certain way, you know, we hold them to a little bit more.
Speaker B:Like, we could talk to them away.
Speaker B:We can't talk to men or just things of that nature.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:But when it comes to that, I do think that it's.
Speaker B:It's more just normalized for a woman to be very picky and have all these lists of things that a man has to amount to before he's worthy of her time.
Speaker B:Whereas for us guys, sometimes, you know.
Speaker C:Might be more like, physical.
Speaker E:You'll.
Speaker E:Yeah, you'll look.
Speaker B:You'll be looked at, like, negatively if you're, like, too picky or if you're, you know, you might be looked at like, oh, he's choosy, or, oh, you don't take nobody serious.
Speaker B:But it's like, no, realistically, I just don't want to take anything serious, you know.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker C:And sometimes those standards often kind of hinder.
Speaker C:Sometimes you either get pat.
Speaker C:You get to that point, you know, where they might let it slide, or you actually get to the point where it's just like, oh, like, I Can't even get, get past it, you know?
Speaker C:So this depends.
Speaker A:If I can't get past it, I'm gonna stay another few months and see if it gets better.
Speaker D:You gonna make it work?
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker E:In those few months, they, they compound the more.
Speaker E:A few months and more.
Speaker E:A few months and you never leave.
Speaker A:I'm stuck right now.
Speaker B:What?
Speaker E:You're crazy.
Speaker E:That's crazy.
Speaker E:In Live from Los Angeles.
Speaker A:I'm playing.
Speaker E:I'm very happy right now.
Speaker D:Oh, my goodness.
Speaker E:Folks, no, but to keep it on, you know, we got Men's Mental Health Month, so we'll keep it on the topic for a little bit longer.
Speaker B:Are men taught to love or men taught to provide?
Speaker D:Ah, it's like a balance of it.
Speaker D:Both.
Speaker C:Yeah, I think I, I, I'm kind of skewed.
Speaker C:Like, not skewed, but I think I'm kind of in the middle.
Speaker B:I don't know, I might have a skewed opinion, but I feel like part partly as a man, you're taught, like, providing is, is showing love.
Speaker B:Like, in a sense.
Speaker B:So it's like sometimes somebody might look at you and be like, hey, you need to do these small gestures to show me you still care.
Speaker B:But at, it's like, dude, I do this, this, this.
Speaker B:I take care, I make sure that.
Speaker B:And you, you think that it's, like, understood, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:But to them, they might look at it as, like, a different way.
Speaker B:Like, you're not showing them in other ways.
Speaker B:Maybe you're not open emotionally as much or this, that, you know, it could be just different things.
Speaker B:So I do think, in a sense, we're kind of taught, like, providing is love.
Speaker B:Like, that's just my thought process.
Speaker B:Like, from a young age, you're taught, like, even if you have a sister, if you have a mom, like, oh, you don't do that or open the door for them or this, that, the other, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:You're taught certain things at a young age, and I feel like that kind of like, translates later into your life.
Speaker B:So sometimes to us, we might look at that providing as love.
Speaker B:But are we taught to genuinely, like, love in a sense?
Speaker B:Like, what do you guys think about that?
Speaker D:What does that mean exactly?
Speaker D:What are you trying to tell me?
Speaker A:Define that.
Speaker A:Break it.
Speaker E:What is love?
Speaker A:Is it adjective, verb, or.
Speaker B:No, no.
Speaker E:Like, what is showing love?
Speaker B:Is it, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker D:It's just like being there for them and just really getting to know them and really asking them, like, like, you know, how you're doing how you're feeling truly, you know.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker D:In the sense of more than just providing, because, yeah, anybody could just provide and take care of you, but, like, are you really taking care of this person?
Speaker D:You know, I'm saying, like, yeah, you get to really know them.
Speaker D:You really get to find out, like, what's going down with them when you're not with them.
Speaker D:Like, what are they battling on the outside or whatever.
Speaker B:Maybe, you know, looking deeper than just like the.
Speaker B:You got a roof over your head.
Speaker B:Food.
Speaker D:Exactly how you say?
Speaker D:Like, is it providing just enough?
Speaker D:And that's like, no, sometimes it's not.
Speaker D:You know, Sometimes they want to talk and you got to listen, you know, and so I have a bad problem with that, was listening.
Speaker D:Like, I'll listen for a good while.
Speaker D:And I was like, oh, my goodness.
Speaker D:You know, but it's like, at the same time, though, it's like when I'm spitting my out, it's like, I want somebody to listen to me, too.
Speaker D:So it's like, you got to be able to reciprocate the same love you're trying to receive, trying to give and receiving.
Speaker B:I mean, how do we, like.
Speaker A:And then give it again.
Speaker D:Yes, sir.
Speaker E:How do we, like, re.
Speaker B:I don't know, reverse engineer or something.
Speaker E:Those.
Speaker B:Those thoughts or something like, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Like, how do we kind of open our mind to thinking about love in a different way?
Speaker B:For those that might be thinking that.
Speaker D:That'S what you just got to do your own.
Speaker D:And.
Speaker D:And your own study of how to better yourself of doing that if you're not already good at it, you know.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:Because I genuinely think that part of it is, like, everybody's definition of love and, like, how to show love and everything is going to differ person to person.
Speaker D:Oh, yeah, for sure.
Speaker D:So some people might be more affectionate.
Speaker C:Everybody has different examples of what they're able to do for people and stuff, too.
Speaker C:Like, people might have, like, good examples.
Speaker C:Somebody might, you know, people.
Speaker C:Some people might figure it out by themselves or some like that, you know.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker C:So just like, I don't know, like, you're obviously taught as a man, like, from people, or you just, you know, who you are as a man to provide and how you do that and.
Speaker B:Execute that is, you know, based on yourself.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:And I feel like that's part of it, you know, it's just based basically, like, how you view.
Speaker B:Even providing some people provide in just a physical state, some people provide financially, some people provide emotionally, and I guess a lot of it is just person to person.
Speaker B:There's no generic answer.
Speaker D:Yeah, that's how the both of you work, I guess.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker E:Because everybody.
Speaker B:Everybody gives and receives love different ways.
Speaker B:Exactly.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker D:And, yeah, because sometimes it might not.
Speaker D:You might not see it as working out for you, but for them, it works out.
Speaker D:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Exactly.
Speaker B:So it's, like, ultimately comes down to.
Speaker B:I don't think that we're taught necessarily to provide or love.
Speaker B:I just think that some of us are conditioned to feel like loving is providing, in a sense, sometimes.
Speaker A:I was taught to provide.
Speaker A:Me personally.
Speaker B:No.
Speaker E:So expand on that.
Speaker D:Walk us through this.
Speaker A:I'm old school, bro.
Speaker C:No, love.
Speaker A:I'm old school.
Speaker A:I think I feel like I know.
Speaker D:Where you're coming from.
Speaker A:Controversy aside, I think growing up and being raised and what I was taught as a youngster was like, the man of the house provides everything.
Speaker A:And that's not to say that he doesn't provide love and all that good stuff, too.
Speaker A:But I think that's the main focus.
Speaker A:And I think the.
Speaker A:If you love someone enough, then the providing comes first.
Speaker A:And then, I mean, like, the rest kind of just blankets over that, you know?
Speaker B:I mean.
Speaker B:No, definitely.
Speaker A:But the main priority, I think, is making sure that the ones you love the most are secured.
Speaker B:Yeah, no, and I agree, ultimately, because what the.
Speaker B:When it comes down to, like, bare necessities and, like, the most, I guess, necessary, like, things you need, essential things you need in life, like, you have to be able to provide that, to provide a safe space, to even, you know, cultivate a family or these different things.
Speaker B:So I do agree.
Speaker B:Same with him is that, like, as a man, you just have to.
Speaker B:You have to kind of provide that foundation, try to set the roots as best you can.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:But ultimately, yeah, part of providing is also the emotional side and other things.
Speaker B:So I wouldn't say that we're just taught to provide financially.
Speaker A:Oh, yeah, no, of course.
Speaker B:Things of that nature.
Speaker C:It's just a mindset, too.
Speaker A:Like.
Speaker A:Yeah, it's mindset.
Speaker A:And I think priorities really come into play.
Speaker B:No, definitely.
Speaker A:But I mean, that same is, like, do you guys believe in, like, love language or what?
Speaker A:If you do, what's your love language?
Speaker B:No, I definitely think that, like, because.
Speaker E:We were even talking about how everybody.
Speaker B:Gives and receives, loves, love differently.
Speaker B:I think we're all skewed to thinking, like, our way of loving is, like, everybody's way of loving, but I don't think that's true.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker A:Unpopular opinion.
Speaker A:I don't think there's such thing as a low language.
Speaker A:Like how he just said, I think if you really love somebody and that if you're really doing anything that anything that you're doing out of love for somebody is like, that's out of your heart.
Speaker A:That's out of.
Speaker A:Just because you love that person so much, then I mean, the person on the other end, like Chris said, everyone has a different opinion on it or perception of.
Speaker A:And they could be like, oh, well, that's not how I would do it.
Speaker A:But then nobody's the same.
Speaker A:Like, I mean, not everyone thinks like you.
Speaker A:But then they'd be like, well, that's not my love language.
Speaker A:My love language is this.
Speaker A:And then you're kind of just sitting there like, oh, so I just up.
Speaker A:Even though I just was trying to be nice or like that.
Speaker A:I personally don't think it exists.
Speaker A:I think if you love somebody, you love somebody and like you take what that person is and offers you as a whole.
Speaker A:Unless like they're treating like, obviously.
Speaker B:But to counter your point, I, I agree with what you're saying, but I think that love language.
Speaker B:I don't say love languages don't exist.
Speaker B:I think like current perspective of love languages are very skewed and stuff like.
Speaker E:Where it's like you cater to certain.
Speaker B:Love languages rather than understanding.
Speaker A:Ok, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Like, just understanding what your partner views.
Speaker E:As is love to them.
Speaker E:Like, I think everybody has that.
Speaker E:You get what I'm saying?
Speaker E:Like, I do think everybody has that.
Speaker B:Like, sense of like, you know, love language of like, okay, this is what I view is love.
Speaker B:This is what I view is thoughtfulness and consideration.
Speaker B:And I think it's important to try to understand that as a partner.
Speaker B:But I do think it's very skewed where it's like, no, you have to meet me where I'm at you.
Speaker A:Rather than just like, exactly what I was trying to say.
Speaker E:Yeah, yeah, like, no, I definitely agree with that.
Speaker E:Like, you can't just say like, this is where who I am.
Speaker E:This is how I love.
Speaker A:And if it's anything other than that, then it's like, yeah, that's the kind of, that I'm just like, I don't even know if you're understanding what you're saying right now.
Speaker B:No, definitely, I, I would definitely agree with that.
Speaker A:But that's my tangent on that.
Speaker C:No, everybody has different love languages, in my opinion.
Speaker C:I think that everybody.
Speaker C:I don't Know, I think that's just a way of kind of expressing to like, how you wish to, you know, be loved and seen, heard, whatever the you feel, you know.
Speaker C:So.
Speaker B:I don't know.
Speaker C:Yes, I think that's a.
Speaker C:It's a communicative way to express kind of like the routes and how you're feeling and stuff.
Speaker A:So.
Speaker A:No.
Speaker A:Yeah, me too.
Speaker A:And stuff like that.
Speaker C:Stuff like that.
Speaker E:No, and I also.
Speaker E:I also think part of like, feeling loved is feeling just seen.
Speaker B:So I think a big part of that is just understanding and just trying to at least attempting or like giving that effort.
Speaker B:Because ultimately, like, you know, love is an action and things of that nature, I guess also.
Speaker A:Disclaimer.
Speaker A:I've been through three marriages already, so don't take any love advice from me.
Speaker E:That's crazy.
Speaker E:No.
Speaker E:Speaking about love, though, you know, what comes with love is some red flags.
Speaker E:Everybody got him.
Speaker E:What are red flags?
Speaker E:That loki turn you guys on turn neon.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:What are some red flags?
Speaker E:That.
Speaker E:Be like that piques my interest a little bit.
Speaker E:I know it's bad for me, but.
Speaker A:I know it's bad for me.
Speaker E:Like, for example, I kind of.
Speaker E:I'll be honest.
Speaker E:I kind of.
Speaker E:If I look at a girl, she's kind of unapproachable.
Speaker E:I don't like, want her to be unapproachable towards me.
Speaker E:But I like if you're unapproachable, because I don't want everybody to just feel like they could like, you know, push up on you talked, you know, just things like that.
Speaker E:Like, what are red flags that, you know, attract you guys?
Speaker A:I love me a little crazy.
Speaker E:What does that mean to you?
Speaker A:I don't even know.
Speaker A:But the second they show that they're a little bit crazy, I'm like.
Speaker E:He'S like, she robbed for me.
Speaker E:She'll die for me.
Speaker E:Like, I need me when they're gonna take the charge.
Speaker A:Like, if I'm.
Speaker A:If you're not tripping on me when I'm playing TK at like 10, 9pm at the boy's house.
Speaker A:What are you even doing?
Speaker D:Do you even love me?
Speaker A:Do you even love me?
Speaker A:Do you care about me like that?
Speaker E:So that.
Speaker E:That's the thing.
Speaker E:Like, some people can ask me if.
Speaker A:I'm out here with.
Speaker E:Yeah, no, some people view that as love.
Speaker E:So elaborate.
Speaker E:Like, what?
Speaker E:Why is that?
Speaker E:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker E:Why is that so conditioned to make us think that that means somebody cares about us, as if they're worried about us?
Speaker A:I don't even know if it's that deep.
Speaker A:I just like the attention.
Speaker E:Okay.
Speaker A:I'll be like, huh, look who's texting me now.
Speaker A:What's up shorty?
Speaker A:I promise you just you're the only one for me, baby.
Speaker E:What about you, Bentley?
Speaker D:Probably just.
Speaker D:I didn't mean Kev.
Speaker D:Both agreed on it.
Speaker D:Just on the story.
Speaker D:He's like a little, little mean to you.
Speaker D:Yeah, she's mean to you.
Speaker D:Kind of like like word.
Speaker D:Like just she's with her words.
Speaker D:She's kind of just like you punk.
Speaker D:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker D:But like she's just like a little rude to you.
Speaker D:Like her comebacks are there and like.
Speaker E:No, let a girl call you.
Speaker E:That's what I was about to say.
Speaker E:Unpopular opinion.
Speaker C:I think, I think to elaborate on that, like mean.
Speaker C:Like kind of like mean, mean out in like public, but nice to you in person.
Speaker B:Whoa.
Speaker C:Not like out in public like oh, like she's a straight in public.
Speaker A:You a kinky ass.
Speaker E:That's crazy.
Speaker E:He wants her to think like act.
Speaker C:Like he's resting face.
Speaker C:Like nobody's going to come up talk to you.
Speaker A:You're like.
Speaker C:Cuz that's your like, you know.
Speaker B:No.
Speaker E:Yeah, so that's what I said.
Speaker E:I like her mean to other people, but you like her mean to you.
Speaker C:No, no, no, no.
Speaker C:I feel like that's what you asked.
Speaker E:Whatever, but I'm just back for a little bit.
Speaker C:No, I, I mean it more on that way.
Speaker C:But at the same time, I mean she is like a little mean.
Speaker C:I mean I take it as a little spicy.
Speaker C:Like you know.
Speaker E:See one thing I will say is I think like if she calls a man a bitch like there's like loki.
Speaker C:Yeah, that's.
Speaker E:I don't know, there's something like irrepar, irreparable damage.
Speaker A:Loki.
Speaker A:She wasn't raised right.
Speaker A:If she calls grown ass man a.
Speaker E:You know, I see that clip I love island.
Speaker E:Like how that should be go viral lately, recently I haven't seen this season.
Speaker E:I see the clip where the girl was like.
Speaker A:I'd seen it.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:So this girl, she's like gets basically.
Speaker B:Liked over or something and she's like.
Speaker E:Oh, that's why you're a pussy ass bitch.
Speaker E:And just goes in on bro.
Speaker E:And I was like, yeah, me.
Speaker E:I wouldn't look back.
Speaker E:I'd be like peace.
Speaker E:And it's just an ego thing.
Speaker B:Like bro, you're not going to talk to.
Speaker B:I would never.
Speaker D:I mean I didn't mean.
Speaker D:I just meant like just.
Speaker D:She's just.
Speaker D:She got come back so, okay.
Speaker D:I didn't.
Speaker E:No, I feel you.
Speaker E:Like, I didn't know this whole thing was going down.
Speaker E:You want to go.
Speaker E:To be, like, quick with it.
Speaker D:She's just quick with it.
Speaker D:You know, she can take a little joke.
Speaker D:I'm, you know, Rui like that, too.
Speaker D:He cracks jokes, you know.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker A:I'm a talker.
Speaker D:Come back with it, too.
Speaker D:It's cool.
Speaker A:But you have to be able to come back with.
Speaker A:If you can't, you just get upset.
Speaker A:Then I'm like, yeah.
Speaker D:And then she's all, so you still.
Speaker D:Love you, girl.
Speaker E:Come on.
Speaker D:We was joking.
Speaker B:I thought.
Speaker B:Yeah, just, like, not overly too far.
Speaker D:Sometimes you're just like, oh, I'm guilty.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker A:I hit the pen.
Speaker A:The pen, Franklin.
Speaker A:A couple times, and I be saying some stupid.
Speaker C:I don't know.
Speaker C:At the same time, they're also red flags.
Speaker C:And sometimes you could, like, you can overlook those red flags until it become.
Speaker E:Too much and they bite you in the ass.
Speaker E:That's the funny thing.
Speaker C:It's a red flag, though.
Speaker C:But, hey, sometimes I be turning on.
Speaker E:Why is that, though?
Speaker E:Like, why.
Speaker D:And it's like that for girls, too.
Speaker C:Like, girls have.
Speaker E:Hey, why.
Speaker A:Why do people drink?
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker A:Like, why do people smoke cigarettes?
Speaker E:We like, that's bad for you.
Speaker A:It's bad for you.
Speaker E:It's degenerate.
Speaker B:We're all degenerate.
Speaker D:How do you feel like, when you see your boy with, like, a red flag?
Speaker D:Are you just like, oh, man, what's he doing?
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker D:You know what I mean?
Speaker A:But it's like he likes that second bad embarrassment.
Speaker A:I'm like, that's not my homie.
Speaker A:I don't know this guy.
Speaker A:I try to tell him, believe me.
Speaker D:That'S how I feel about you when I'm out with you.
Speaker A:Damn it.
Speaker E:That's how I feel about you.
Speaker A:Hey, no.
Speaker A:Hey, no.
Speaker D:Hey, no, no.
Speaker E:That's too close.
Speaker A:Hey, now.
Speaker D:No, no, no.
Speaker D:But how many more red flags can you really have?
Speaker D:Because I feel like there's.
Speaker A:I think I'm a walking red flag.
Speaker D:How deep is a red flag?
Speaker B:Like, how.
Speaker D:How deep is the red?
Speaker D:You know?
Speaker B:Oh, I think there are plenty of, like, red flags.
Speaker B:Flags.
Speaker B:Like, bad red flags, because there's some faded red.
Speaker D:But how deep, true red.
Speaker B:Like, if a woman would lie on you or lie on, like, anyone she loves or something like that, bro, that's a huge red flag.
Speaker A:And that's not the kind that we like.
Speaker B:Certain.
Speaker B:Certain accountability issues are huge red flags.
Speaker B:Like, if you can't just see where you're wrong in A situation.
Speaker B:You just.
Speaker D:The argument just can't end like, there's no wrong, right or wrong.
Speaker E:It always has to be a reason why you did this or something like these.
Speaker B:There's things that are red flags, you know, like, there are universal red flags.
Speaker D:You can't let it slide, you know.
Speaker B:But there are some things where it's like, it's tolerable.
Speaker E:Like, everybody.
Speaker E:You can't expect everybody to be perfect.
Speaker E:We said last week, you can't expect everybody to be perfect.
Speaker B:You have to know that, like, you know, somebody's gonna have their irritable.
Speaker E:Their irritability.
Speaker E:You're gonna get irritated.
Speaker D:You find, like, attractive about them is like, their little whatever they got going on.
Speaker D:You know, they could be whatever, whatever.
Speaker D:And you're just like, oh, you know.
Speaker D:But to you, though, that's.
Speaker D:That's you, though.
Speaker D:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And I feel like what's truly.
Speaker B:Like, what test if you love somebody is not what you enjoy of them.
Speaker B:It's like, how much you can, like, still see the flaws.
Speaker D:I want to be with them, still.
Speaker E:See the bad parts and still be.
Speaker B:Like, all right, well, I still want to make it work.
Speaker E:How hard you keep getting hit.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker E:How far you get back up and you keep getting hit.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker E:It's also, remember the Titan, I guess.
Speaker E:But like.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:No, if you feel it that way, like, where it's like, hey, love is a battle, baby.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:It's not meant to be easy.
Speaker E:If it's too easy, it's probably something that you don't know.
Speaker E:Are you getting.
Speaker C:Your ass is getting cheated on?
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker D:That's the wife.
Speaker D:Never have I been cheating on.
Speaker D:I don't think I have.
Speaker E:Hey, speaking about cheating real quick, just real quick, who cheats better, men or women?
Speaker C:Honestly, I say women do they.
Speaker A:I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker C:Men be getting caught way too easily.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker D:They go tell the boys, and the boys just easily.
Speaker C:Women, they be taking that down.
Speaker E:I feel.
Speaker B:I feel like that's sneaky.
Speaker E:I feel like.
Speaker E:I feel like that's a little viral.
Speaker E:Like, that's hella viral conversation of, like, women cheat better.
Speaker E:And I feel like.
Speaker E:I don't think it's like men or women.
Speaker B:I just think, like, you know, it's.
Speaker E:It's to do about the characteristics of the person.
Speaker B:I will say.
Speaker E:But I do feel like.
Speaker A:I think women can get pretty slimy.
Speaker B:I feel like.
Speaker B:I feel like women can get away with it a little more because guys will overlook certain things that, like, there's certain things that wouldn't be normal if.
Speaker E:A guy was doing these things but for a girl.
Speaker E:Like, oh, if you and your friends.
Speaker B:Got like into a section or went to an after party, like, oh, no, that's normal.
Speaker E:Like, you know, girls will fall into.
Speaker B:Something and it'd be more normal.
Speaker B:Whereas like, if it's a guy, like, the girl will like be tripping like.
Speaker E:Who what are you doing?
Speaker E:Why are you staying?
Speaker E:So, because it's like we don't get it for free this.
Speaker E:We don't, we don't get like, you know, certain things.
Speaker E:So I do think, like there's a.
Speaker C:Lot of people that stand for, Stand for everything or stand for nothing.
Speaker C:Like, you know, like there's a lot of people will stand on like, there's a lot of guys don't be wanting their girls to go out to like clubs or sex.
Speaker C:Like, guys be tripping on like that like hella hard.
Speaker A:Like, no, my girl ain't going nowhere.
Speaker C:But I don't know, I think that women be cheating.
Speaker C:They like, I don't know, I think that there's like how you said to touch on what you're saying.
Speaker C:There's a lot of that's normalized.
Speaker C:So given there's a lot of that's normalized, like they're like, you know, they can get away with a lot more like, oh, I was just doing this like, and then expect you to brush it off or some like, no, I've.
Speaker A:Seen my fair share of women cheaters, dog.
Speaker B:No, and I feel like that's the thing for guys is a lot of times people don't understand it hurts just.
Speaker D:As much as like if she just hugged somebody else, you know, like, what the hell you doing hugging some.
Speaker D:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And I think, I think what's was horrible too is like as single.
Speaker B:When you're single, it's not the that.
Speaker E:You see as a taking man, but it's the that you saw as a.
Speaker B:Single man, like, or the that you.
Speaker E:Did where you be like, damn, that slimy.
Speaker E:Like this could be happening.
Speaker E:Like, you know, as a single man.
Speaker E:You think that couldn't be you until you got in a relationship and then you love her and you're like, damn, I believe this story about there.
Speaker D:Don't be scared, get out there.
Speaker D:Don't be shy.
Speaker D:Ain't gonna happen.
Speaker D:Regardless, take it like a man.
Speaker E:And that's another thing, I'll be honest.
Speaker E:Like, what are you guys thoughts on this?
Speaker B:Like cheating.
Speaker E:Some people forgive it, some people think it's work through a bit.
Speaker D:Cheating.
Speaker E:I don't know if I can work through it.
Speaker E:I don't think I can.
Speaker E:I think I'm done.
Speaker B:So if some like that happens, I think I'm just.
Speaker B:All right.
Speaker B:No hard feelings.
Speaker E:Scot free.
Speaker E:You have a good life.
Speaker B:I'm doing my thing.
Speaker D:You ain't taking her back.
Speaker D:She's sorry, Chris.
Speaker E:I'm sorry.
Speaker E:Loved you.
Speaker A:No, I loved you.
Speaker E:Past tense for a reason, you know?
Speaker E:I think that's how I am.
Speaker C:It's over.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker D:Because I wouldn't want her to take me back.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker A:So forget about it.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker E:No, but we were just talking about red flags, so let's get into the next topic.
Speaker B:What is something that instantly will give you an ick about a person?
Speaker B:And it could be even just.
Speaker E:It doesn't have to be a relationship.
Speaker B:It could be just a person, but with something that instantly gives you an ick?
Speaker B:You're just like, damn, that one's tough.
Speaker C:When people be chewing with their mouth open.
Speaker D:Yeah, okay, I can see that one.
Speaker D:I can see that one.
Speaker C:Kendrick be watching this.
Speaker E:Kev goes in on K out about that.
Speaker E:I'm like, bro, relax.
Speaker E:You know?
Speaker D:Hey, he be doing it.
Speaker E:But sometimes you just accept your people.
Speaker E:Perkins, why you.
Speaker D:You like this?
Speaker C:You know, why he like that?
Speaker B:But.
Speaker D:Oh, I don't know.
Speaker D:But that's a.
Speaker D:That's a crazy.
Speaker A:Good question.
Speaker B:No, Very good question.
Speaker B:I think something that instantly gives me an ick is, I don't know, just being inconsiderate or something.
Speaker B:Like, just thinking that my life, I.
Speaker A:Think for, like, acquaintances or human beings in general.
Speaker A:Someone who lies.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker A:Or, like, throws sauce on everything they say is just, like, immediately, like, I just want to slap your ass.
Speaker A:Like, they say, like, some outlandish ass.
Speaker D:Like, the story's too crazy.
Speaker A:No, like, we grew up with this one guy, bro.
Speaker A:Not gonna name no names, but if you know who this guy is, I'm sure you know, but the guy just.
Speaker A:Bro, 16 years old.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker A:My uncle just gave me, like, 20 grand.
Speaker E:Oh, that's what's up, bro.
Speaker E:What are you gonna do with this?
Speaker E:Liars.
Speaker A:Yeah, bro, like, so crazy, crazy.
Speaker A:Just like, oh, damn, that's crazy.
Speaker A:And then he doubles down and keeps making it even crazier.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker A:That irks my soul.
Speaker A:And I'm not, like, one to judge or, like, not, like, call you a liar, but, I mean, some.
Speaker A:I could maybe be like, call but prove it or something.
Speaker A:Like, you know, I mean, I don't know, but if you can't prove It.
Speaker A:Sorry.
Speaker A:That irks me for women is different.
Speaker C:Why are you pocket watching if you got 20 bands, you get 20.
Speaker A:I mean, sure, yeah, whatever.
Speaker A:But like, I mean, there were signs that the kid was lying.
Speaker A:That's all.
Speaker E:Like, I know.
Speaker D:I feel that one.
Speaker A:That one's.
Speaker A:But.
Speaker A:And that's like, I totally made that story up.
Speaker A:Touch it.
Speaker A:There's stories like that.
Speaker E:Like, totally made this, but like, stories like that.
Speaker A:But he tells you some crazy.
Speaker A:Oh, damn.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Like conversation, conversation.
Speaker A:Then he just like, rats himself out that he's lying.
Speaker A:Oh, damn, that's great.
Speaker A:That's what's up, though.
Speaker E:I don't know.
Speaker C:Exposes himself.
Speaker E:The older I get, there's certain just.
Speaker B:Conversation topics that just give me the ick.
Speaker E:Like if somebody's trying to be too.
Speaker B:Boastful about, like, certain, like, things, like.
Speaker E:Money they made or like things they've done or something's like, oh, like, yeah, great.
Speaker E:Like, it's.
Speaker E:It's one thing if you have, like, a mutual interest.
Speaker E:You guys are talking about certain things.
Speaker E:You guys are like, having that.
Speaker E:But I just hate a guy who'd just be like, oh, I see that shirt you got.
Speaker E:Yeah, yeah, no, I know his cousin.
Speaker E:Like, yeah, like, it's one.
Speaker E:It's one thing if like, they're talking to you and you're like, they're like, yeah, no, I love this guy.
Speaker E:Yeah, Then say that you know his cousin.
Speaker E:But like, bro, like, conversation wise, they'll just like, insert one upper.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker A:Nobody asked you.
Speaker D:Yeah, I don't.
Speaker D:Like somebody who like, like tries to give you more.
Speaker D:Like, like, for example, like when we were doing the podcast, I tell people about the podcast and then they see the podcast.
Speaker E:Bro.
Speaker D:Now you guys got to do this and you guys got to do this and you guys gotta do.
Speaker D:I'm like, dude, relax.
Speaker D:You think, like, we really don't know.
Speaker B:Like, we.
Speaker D:You think we're not in the talks about this.
Speaker A:You're like, they just woke up and had a pronunciation.
Speaker D:I promise you, if you do this.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker A:I don't know what you would call.
Speaker D:That, but it's like they try to just give you more information of you already.
Speaker A:Like, shout out to the support.
Speaker A:We don't know what we're doing.
Speaker E:No.
Speaker E:And that's one thing I'll say for sure.
Speaker E:No ideas or anything.
Speaker E:Like, we welcome them with open arms.
Speaker E:But to come through, like, at least do a little research.
Speaker E:I hate when somebody.
Speaker B:Bro, you gotta chop them up, make them smaller clips.
Speaker E:It's like, bro, have you checked our tick tock?
Speaker B:And Instagram, bro, like you.
Speaker E:Or certain like things like, or even if they're like talk about certain things, like, oh, you should have posted that clip.
Speaker E:And it's like, well, we did post.
Speaker B:Not like I, but not even about.
Speaker D:The podcast, but like something about, like something you're doing in general.
Speaker D:You know, saying then they just have to, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker D:And they don't know about it.
Speaker D:Like, dude, shut the up.
Speaker D:You probably watched one little five minute reel on something.
Speaker D:Something that I'm talking about.
Speaker D:You're wanting to give you two cents in.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker E:And I think it's.
Speaker B:It all comes down to like contents.
Speaker B:If like some, if you're talking like actively having a conversation about that already, like somebod asking about the podcast, you're telling them, oh, yeah, we've been dealing.
Speaker E:With this and you want to give.
Speaker B:Me your feedback on what we're talking about.
Speaker E:Great.
Speaker B:But like, if somebody just hits you up like, bro.
Speaker B:Or like, you know, hit you up about random things like, oh, and like just tell you what you should do when it's like, bro, it was unsolicited advice.
Speaker D:Like, there's always like some randoms too.
Speaker D:Like when I will be out and about.
Speaker E:Oh my God.
Speaker A: haven't talked to since like: Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:And if you're like the homie or.
Speaker B:Somebody and you're watching this like, like, you know, if you've talked to us about advice we take that.
Speaker D:I'm not talking about that.
Speaker E:We're talking about literally somebody who just.
Speaker E:I haven't seen since high school.
Speaker E:They walk up to me like, bro, that little podcast is cool.
Speaker E:You think about getting Joe Rogan, like, yeah, you're getting ahead of yourself, dog.
Speaker E:I can't get Joe Rogan today.
Speaker E:I want to get there.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker D:I never said I was huge.
Speaker D:I never said I was on Telemundo.
Speaker D:I'm just trying to do this.
Speaker E:That's another thing I low key hate is somebody that gives me an ick about somebody.
Speaker E:If they like give you subtle like.
Speaker B:Like if they subtly talk down on you.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker E:Oh, how's.
Speaker B:How is like that, you know, little job going?
Speaker E:How's your little job going?
Speaker E:Or like, oh, you still doing that little, like, you know, they just.
Speaker A:Yeah, you still with that little.
Speaker E:Yeah, but downplaying everything you got.
Speaker E:It's just like, damn.
Speaker E:But you know what I'm saying?
Speaker E:Like, bro, I could be taking pride in this.
Speaker E:You guys are over here just telling me you get what I'm saying?
Speaker E:Like, I try to change that, like, I.
Speaker B:If I talk to anybody, I try not to accidentally downplay anything because I just see that, like, how it happens in certain things about, like, work or this or that.
Speaker B:Like, oh, that's facts.
Speaker E:You got that little promotion.
Speaker E:It's like, dog, it's little to you?
Speaker E:No, I thought I did.
Speaker E:Well, like, that sucks.
Speaker A:Working my whole life for that.
Speaker E:I put it in the time I'm.
Speaker D:Out here fighting for my life.
Speaker C:It's always sucks when you're expressing yourself, your accomplishment or something like that, or not even accomplishment or just something random.
Speaker C:And there's always somebody go one up you.
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:Or like, yeah, I wish that happened to me.
Speaker E:Like, you're just like, bro, can't enjoy it, dog.
Speaker E:Can't I?
Speaker C:That's Mario.
Speaker E:My bad, Mario.
Speaker C:Always be saying that.
Speaker C:I wish that was me.
Speaker E:No, my bad.
Speaker E:Let me bring you up with me, dog.
Speaker A:N. I just be like, damn.
Speaker A:I. I love me some french fries, too.
Speaker E:I never had them before.
Speaker E:It's crazy.
Speaker E:Be like, you went to that restaurant.
Speaker E:Damn.
Speaker E:Wish I had an advice.
Speaker E:You can't let me enjoy the restaurant, Mario.
Speaker D:They don't want to see me shine.
Speaker E:They don't want to ever see me shine.
Speaker C:Could at least ask for it to go.
Speaker B:No, but I got, you know, one.
Speaker E:Last question for y'.
Speaker B:All.
Speaker E:If you ev.
Speaker E:Has there ever been a time where you've ever had to pretend that you weren't hurt?
Speaker D:That's funny.
Speaker A:Like, injured.
Speaker E:It could be mentally.
Speaker D:It was like, my first experience straight from sixth grade.
Speaker D:I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker D:Straight up, dude.
Speaker D:This one stuck with you because this is, like, the first time I really, like.
Speaker D:Because, you know you're not supposed to cry as a boy.
Speaker D:The whole nine, you know?
Speaker D:So I remember, like, just like, I was, like, hurt, bro.
Speaker D:Like, my heart, my head was hurting.
Speaker D:The whole nine, you know what I mean?
Speaker E:You're not starting.
Speaker D:You're just going through it, bro.
Speaker D:You don't know what the.
Speaker D:So I remember I was dating.
Speaker D:This is like some dumb middle school, like, date, you know?
Speaker D:So I was dating this.
Speaker D:This girl.
Speaker D:She's a cool girl.
Speaker D:And it was on some dumb.
Speaker D:Broke up with my dumb ass, goes and dates my best friend.
Speaker D:And, like, I didn't know nothing about this.
Speaker D:So, like, that next morning, I pull up, and they're, like, making out hard.
Speaker D:I'm like, like, what?
Speaker D:And I was just like, oh, my God.
Speaker D:Straight up.
Speaker D:And I remember, like, I was like, damn.
Speaker D:And I, like, walked off and, like, immediate heartbreak, heart.
Speaker D:Immediate heartbreak.
Speaker D:I remember a little tears Coming.
Speaker E:I was like, oh, bring it back, bring it back.
Speaker D:And I just kept walking.
Speaker D:I remember the full, like, was running towards me trying to like, hey.
Speaker D:I was like, bro, have your business.
Speaker D:Like, you know, I mean, I just was like, I have yours, dog.
Speaker D:Like, it's all good.
Speaker E:Come on.
Speaker D:First period, I had to go to the bathroom.
Speaker D:Finally, some tears out in the bathroom.
Speaker E:No, I won't say cry, but something similar happened to me.
Speaker E:But Capri, I was.
Speaker E:There's this girl, she came to my birthday party, kissed me.
Speaker E:Everything, bro.
Speaker E:Yeah, I was really good.
Speaker E:I was feeling good.
Speaker D:Yeah.
Speaker E:I come back to McCaffrey, my old homeboy.
Speaker E:Like, back then, he wasn't my homeboy, but my boy Boochie, bro.
Speaker E:Oh, the magoo at lunch puts his arm around her.
Speaker E:I'm looking at it like, what the.
Speaker E:They're just talking.
Speaker E:And then he starts holding her hand.
Speaker E:He started walking with me, her.
Speaker B:So I'm like, it.
Speaker E:I go to class, you know, and we're leaving, leaving school.
Speaker E:And this one grabs her head again, walks her home from school, starts kissing her in front of me type.
Speaker E:I'm just like.
Speaker E:I look at it, I'm like.
Speaker A:I was like, chris, want to see something?
Speaker E:Yeah.
Speaker E:Nah, I was pissed, cuz we.
Speaker E:Bro, he.
Speaker E:We had the same fourth period class.
Speaker E:Being Boochie, he knew.
Speaker E:He knew that girl was trying to.
Speaker E:Trying to feel on the kid and he just.
Speaker B:Just had to do me dirty.
Speaker D:Like, damn.
Speaker E:But I sat there, took it to the chin.
Speaker E:I was like, to this day, huh?
Speaker A:Shout out to that girl.
Speaker A:She was my first kiss.
Speaker E:I'm sure life treated her well.
Speaker C:Shout out to her.
Speaker E:Oh, man.
Speaker D:Middle school was fun.
Speaker D:I'll tell you what I think.
Speaker C:I think I had the most.
Speaker C:The most.
Speaker C:The most embarrassing moments of the.
Speaker E:Oh, K3 does.
Speaker C:The one when I was.
Speaker E:Was.
Speaker E:He didn't even pretend he wasn't hurt.
Speaker E:Oh, man.
Speaker C:When I was in middle school, man, I took a photo.
Speaker C:I was trying to talk to this one.
Speaker A:He was in his Buzz Light Ear Disneyland hoodie.
Speaker C:No, bro, I was in my LRG shirt, my gray.
Speaker C:My gray shorts, my gray convers.
Speaker E:From back then, too.
Speaker E:His gray crew shirt with his gray matching cargo pants and his great Converse.
Speaker C:Stop back in the day.
Speaker C:Don't.
Speaker C:With the kid.
Speaker E:And he's Jerry Crew, the shine, John Glass.
Speaker C:That was the movement back in the day.
Speaker C:That was my movement.
Speaker C:But no, I suppose it's not supposed.
Speaker C:I actually did that.
Speaker E:I don't know what.
Speaker E:I don't know what happened.
Speaker D:You haven't gotten.
Speaker C:So what happened no, I'm just saying, like when I.
Speaker C:When I was in eighth grade, bro, I walked up to this one that I was really like, just had the fattest crush on her.
Speaker C:Just a fat ass group of people.
Speaker C:Like 20 people in this circle.
Speaker C:And I was just like, I with you.
Speaker C:Like I with you.
Speaker E:Running around with all these guys who don't treat you well.
Speaker E:I'll treat you so well.
Speaker E:Like, bro was giving her the whole Telemundo exclusive.
Speaker E:Let's call it what it is.
Speaker E:Like, bro, cuz I was going, I could give you everything I could in.
Speaker D:Front of a bunch.
Speaker A:And I ain't never going to start loving you.
Speaker E:There's like 30 of us just circled around and watching this all commotion when.
Speaker C:He speaking pretty loud speaking, bro.
Speaker C:And then I forgot, Honestly, I forgot what she said.
Speaker C:She's like, I don't even with you like that.
Speaker E:And I was just like.
Speaker C:All right.
Speaker C:Walked away.
Speaker E:Oh, man, I wasn't really expecting that.
Speaker B:I was like.
Speaker E:I was like, all right then.
Speaker C:And this walked off.
Speaker C:And I was like, damn, I feel like I got a knife in my heart.
Speaker C:I was like.
Speaker C:I was like, now that.
Speaker E:What about leather bees?
Speaker E:Oh, man.
Speaker C:I tried to ask a girl.
Speaker B:Go.
Speaker C:To prom, and then she said yes to me.
Speaker C:And then she texted me.
Speaker A:She said yes when we're in a group of settings.
Speaker E:And then as soon as this one.
Speaker A:Went home, she's like, yeah.
Speaker C:She's like, I'm so sorry, but I can't go with you.
Speaker E:And I was like, I'm gonna be going with somebody else.
Speaker E:It came through.
Speaker E:He was like, I don't care.
Speaker E:That was like, what a.
Speaker D:For real.
Speaker A:Hey, that whole summer Kev was playing was that song by Drake that was off that album.
Speaker A:Oh, my God.
Speaker A:If I die, I'm a legend.
Speaker D:Oh, my God, that's terrible.
Speaker C:Sometimes you gotta act like you ain't.
Speaker D:Hurt, but you hurt, you know?
Speaker E:No, that, bro, that happened to me.
Speaker B:Multiple times in high school.
Speaker B:Like, I remember times where kids on the football team would take a girl, not take a girl, but I stopped talking to a girl.
Speaker B:They start talking to him.
Speaker B:And I'd just be sitting there just like.
Speaker B:Like acting like I don't see it, but the whole time I'm just thinking about it, like, oh, I'm gonna get her back.
Speaker E:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker E:Or like, you know, even physically getting hurt.
Speaker E:Like, I remember the time that this.
Speaker B:Will me and Mario.
Speaker B:Mario's antagonistic, as if you can't tell.
Speaker B:And we're in football and we're in a blocking drill.
Speaker B:And I lowkey get the best of him in that drill.
Speaker B:So as we're walking back Bucci, he's like, man, Chris.
Speaker E:And he comes and he hits me like from the back.
Speaker E:I'm not even noticing.
Speaker E:He hits me, lays me out.
Speaker E:So I get up and I'm like, I start pushing him and everything and he's pushing me back.
Speaker B:Whenever my.
Speaker B:My pinky gets stuck in this helmet.
Speaker E:He just yanks his head and my just gets my pinky just up.
Speaker E:And I was like.
Speaker A:Crying.
Speaker A:He's hella crying.
Speaker B:I did not cry.
Speaker E:Come on.
Speaker A:They're like torgers and runs on laps.
Speaker E:He's like.
Speaker C:What'S a mo.
Speaker C:What's a more recent, more present time where you.
Speaker C:You had to act like you're hurt, but you weren't hurt.
Speaker B:I'd say never work for sure.
Speaker A:I wake up and eat my feelings.
Speaker B:Work humbles you, bro.
Speaker B:Like, there'll be certain where you just.
Speaker B:You should have known, but not should have known better.
Speaker B:But like once it once like you hit the speed bump, you're like, damn, now I know what to look out for.
Speaker E:So you.
Speaker B:It should have been right in front of you, but you didn't know what to look out for, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And like there'll be certain shit where it just damn my.
Speaker B:You know, I take.
Speaker B:I'm like a perfectionist.
Speaker B:Not perfectionist, but I really try to expect a lot of myself or something.
Speaker B:Like, I don't want to get somebody to have to tell me like, oh yeah, you could have improved this.
Speaker B:Like, I'd rather not have that.
Speaker A:I can see it in work because I mean me personally, there's been some times where I come with some idea about this or implement something that's kind of idea.
Speaker A:And then they'd be like, what the fuck's idea was this?
Speaker A:I'd be like, I don't know.
Speaker A:That's fucking.
Speaker B:Oh no.
Speaker E:That's a perfect example.
Speaker E:When you say you have an idea, like even shit at the podcast, I'll come with an idea I think is.
Speaker B:Like fire as Bocci would just be like, that sucks.
Speaker B:And I'll just be like, oh yeah, that sucked.
Speaker B:Keep it a no.
Speaker A:But like if you are wearing a tag on the back of your jeans, cuz you think you look like you have purple jeans on, you think you're fitted up, you got to go step and pull some hus.
Speaker A:I'm going straight up.
Speaker A:Sit you down and say, brother, take that tag off.
Speaker C:Man, those people are whack.
Speaker E:If you guys had some context, this would be a lot funnier.
Speaker A:I'll give you some context.
Speaker A:We were.
Speaker A:Was it All Star weekend, bro?
Speaker E:Was hating on the boys.
Speaker E:Okay?
Speaker A:It was a weekend in East Oakland in the trenches, dog.
Speaker A:We're at the homie Chris's house, and we're getting out.
Speaker A:Were we off shrooms?
Speaker A:I'm pretty sure we're off shrooms.
Speaker B:No, we're just.
Speaker B:We're just chilling.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:We're just high.
Speaker A:The boy cat pulls up drippy some pants kind of similar to Aaron's.
Speaker A:He cool, little fit on.
Speaker A:He's had a feeling himself in the mirror.
Speaker A:He's all, oh, yeah, shit's hard.
Speaker A:He's like.
Speaker A:With these pants, though.
Speaker A:He turns around and he's got, like, a fat ass tag on it.
Speaker A:They said, like, I didn't even know.
Speaker E:Like, Kindred or some.
Speaker C:I forgot what.
Speaker E:Pretty much.
Speaker A:He thought it looked sick.
Speaker A:We told him, those aren't purple jeans, bro.
Speaker E:Take the tag off my swag.
Speaker E:Mario goes straight into hate hating on him.
Speaker E:So, Kev, you're like, no.
Speaker E:Even Chris said, these are cool, huh, Chris?
Speaker E:I turned, I was like, damn, that shit's fire.
Speaker E:And the like, really?
Speaker E:I'm like, no.
Speaker E:We just started dying, laughing.
Speaker A:Long story short, he pulled the tag off.
Speaker E:Yeah, he took it off.
Speaker A:And he said we were playing his ass.
Speaker A:He said, is not okay, but this guy could take it.
Speaker A:And that was another episode of Unquestionable.
Speaker B:The podcast was.
Speaker A:If you enjoyed this episode, if you with anything we said, or if you downright just disagreed with it, comment.
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Speaker A:Everyone say how much they hate Kevin, myself, Aaron or Chris.
Speaker E:No, definitely live from la.
Speaker E:Nah, definitely.
Speaker E:We love y'.
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